I'm still unsure about a lot of things, and ask a lot of questions of my designer friends. I recently was talking with a friend about redecorating my living room. I was surprised to realize that for the first time, I really had a good feel for what I wanted, and what I didn't want.
I've learned that the pictures I love to look are not necessarily what I want in my own home.
This is a gorgeous room from Country Living that I pinned a long time ago, but now I know, it's totally not me.
I've learned that while my style is ever-evolving, there are looks that I have always loved. I love texture, like burlap, linen, canvas, wire, and weathered wood.
I've learned that I need to learn how to layer. I tend to be very simple, in my clothing and in my decorating.
I actually bought a new necklace and added a shrug for this outfit. May not seem like much to you, but it was a HUGE step for me!
I've learned that I love to decorate with pieces that mean something to me.
I wish I had learned that sooner. I'm not really apt to decorate with random items unless I really, really love them. I love when my decor really expresses my heritage. (Which is why you're going to see a few touches of Germany in my upcoming Living Room makeover).
Oma's vintage suitcase brought over from Germany. It sits above the TV armoire in my living room.
Opa's workbench, re-purposed to be my new industrial style desk.
I've learned that while I love a coastal "feel," there are other ways to express that love than with seashells every where.
Tons of seashells rounded out my summer living room last year. Not this year!
I've learned that I'm not a big fan of color. I love a neutral pallet of grays, browns, creams and whites. And I don't like pink.
Then:
Now:
I've learned that I do not have to fear the Goodwill. I know, some of you may have known this for a while, but for me, it took a little time.
The wicker chair, nightstand and headboard used in my daughter's room all came from thrift stores.
I've learned that artwork and wall decor is not limited to photos of my children. In fact, I really love typography, and creating pieces of my own.
I've learned that I need to think outside of the box more. Like the "big box store box." I'm getting better...
I've learned that I need time to get used to new trends, to decide if I like them or not. This may put me at the end of a trend, but I'm ok with that.
I guess I feel like, if I still like it in a year (when it's no longer "trendy," then it's safe to have it in my home! Like the first time I purchased something with a Chevron pattern...last month.I've learned that I am a minimalist, and I prefer items that are functional, rather than simply for decoration.
I love it when a decorative item performs another function, like using this old crate to store shoes.
I've learned that I do not fit into just one design style. I've learned that I don't have to be defined by one style either.
I've learned that my style may not unique, and I may be a copycat sometimes, but I'm ok with that!
What's my style? Here's what I think:Is that a real thing???
What about you? What have you learned about your style?
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I'm still figuring out my style and I'm a lot, lot older than you. I'm tradional in most of my decorating.
ReplyDeleteI think it's great that you are beginning to see that what's in a picture, might not be what you want to live with everyday. We all go through periods of change and I think you've found great style.
Isn't it interesting that many times we decorate and we really don't know what we like. I started a book a long time ago with pictures from magazines that I liked. Then I started circling things that made me like the picture in each one. It was really eye opening to me why I like what I like, and what my style is.
ReplyDeleteI agree completely on the functional even above pretty. Not many women are like that..........but I sure am!
Melissa
redflycreations.blogspot.com
great post! my home decor style has changed so much over the years! and i'm sure it will continue to do so, but what i have learned, is that i love neutrals with pops of sweet muted pastels. and i don't care if ruffles go "out" anytime soon.... i looooooove them! i think my style is best described as french industrial farmhouse - maybe i can coin the phrase "frinfarm"?!?! lol :-)
ReplyDeleteThis is an awesome post! It's amazing what we learn about our styles over time. I couldn't agree more when you said that pictures you love to look at might not necessarily be what you want in your own home. I have learned that one as well.
ReplyDeleteI love this post, but I can't tell you what my styles is- though I wish I could just copy and paste your house to mine!!
ReplyDeleteI'm thinking I could have written this post (except not as well!) I have learned many of the same lessons--especially about rooms that I admire but don't necessarily want in my home. The only trend I haven't really caught on to is the "coastal" one--guess I'm a mountain girl through and through!!
ReplyDeleteThis is a great post! I am so like you and could ditto almost everything you wrote.
ReplyDeleteHope you are doing great!!
Wow, that was a great post! I find that if I go back to something time and again, then it's something that I really love, like white furniture. Even with a toddler, I just keep going back to white couches. And I'm all for functional, so much so that I forget to be decorative!
ReplyDeleteI'm loving your style!
ReplyDeleteGreat post and I love your style! I'm still discovering mine everyday!
ReplyDeleteWhat a terrific post!!! Its been a great journey to share look forward to even more
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Kate
I really enjoyed this post. I like your thought process, AND your style!!
ReplyDeleteYour home is lovely.
xo
lynn
I really enjoyed reading this post because it took me forever (still ongoing) to learn that I have a style that isn't in a known category and that it takes some contemplation to get a grasp of what it is about me that makes me trend toward certain things. Like you, I rarely get in on something until everyone else is moving along to something else. It can be hard to accept that I have my own style and just go with it sometimes, because it's usually a bit quirky. You got me thinking. Good work. Hope you'll stop in and see me at Quirky Vistas sometime.
ReplyDeleteLiz
You really touched a great point with this post. I can't name my style. I love to play around and I normally end up going back to a neutral. I just go for what I like and sometimes it's awful & other times it works out okay. Your bedroom is amazing. I love those colors. I tend to like greys and greens. However going through all my decor I found a lot of blue and so I have been trying to work it in...New challenge for me. You have great taste & I look forward to seeing more of your designs.
ReplyDeleteI'm still figuring out my style.
ReplyDeleteI love rustic/country - I know that much. I realize that to be country I don't have to have bright green and yellow John Deere clutter all over the place, and actually let go of some of them at a yard sale last month. That was hard, but a huge step!
Whatever you call it, I like it a lot! :) Especially working in pieces that mean something to you and your family. I have a ton of German pieces (shoutout!) and every time I see them it takes me back to my childhood with my grandparents. That is priceless!
ReplyDeleteWhat a great post! We have learned what we love too throughout the years. I know for certain, I do not like any current trends. I have always known I love color, and mix all kinds together,they just make me smile, more so than neutrals. I too though look at those pretty inspiration pics and certainly do love them, but know they would never be fitting in our day to day lives or personalities. It is fun to finally figure out what we LOVE and just go with it! and of course have fun along the way.
ReplyDeleteWonderful post. As others have said, I have no set style, it's changed over the 36 years on my marriage--probably longer than your life, lol. I don't want to live in a rut. I have old trunks and (oops) vintage suitcases. Never had white, too practical for one thing, kids, dogs....I like comfort. I'm eclectic, would be the best word, I guess. Janet
ReplyDeleteKristin, I learned alot from your post! I have been MIA a bit lately from blog stalking and I am so glad I popped in today! You have managed to put into words what I have been feeling but unable to express. The biggest thing that actually just hit me is that just because I love to look at something in someone elsed home or photo doesn't mean I would live with it for very long. Being me is the most important thing, having a beautiful home is about expressing who you are. I too am a late jumper on the trend band wagon... I usually start to like something as everyone else is moving on. Chevron was something I despised, just now it is starting to grow on me as others are moving on! Thanks for this post. I'd love for you to stop over on Tuesday and link up to tip toe thru tuesday with this!
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Kim
tiarasandbowties.blogspot.com
Such a great post that I really enjoyed reading! Definitely glad I stumbled across your blog this evening....
ReplyDeleteThanks for the inspiration...
I love your honesty and your style. I can relate to much of what you wrote about. My home and taste is ever-evolving. I am often in a state of flux, feeling annoyed by things that just seem unfinished or like I can't pull them together. It's hard to have objectivity about a space you live in, but I think that constant evolution is what makes it a home. Thanks for sharing and inspiring.
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ReplyDeleteDanielle @ Blissful and Domestic
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What a beautiful post - I love that you have your style figured out :)
ReplyDeleteI have my organising style figured, but not my decorating style LOL